Thursday, September 29, 2011

Family Recipes Taste Better and Mean More

Recipes with a dash of family history are more tasty.  They can please the palate and bring back unique memories at the same time.  This could be as simple as a grilled cheese sandwich made with care by your grandpa or time-consuming canned goods of Aunt Minnie’s that are yummy in the winter months.  Passing these recipes down adds so much to the flavors.

Over the past couple of months I’ve been reminded of what’s included in this tradition.  At our family reunion in August a cousin’s homemade salsa with the recipe attached started a friendly bidding war.  Another cousin won that item for his mother, Aunt Peg, and she used it to can salsa with her neighbor’s homegrown tomatoes. We are enjoying the salsa and the fact that it has that special family touch.  Then Krissy kicked off the NFL season a couple of weeks ago by making the old recipe of cocktail meatballs that we always prepared at family holidays. You know, the one with chili sauce and grape jelly. Talking to me before the game she said: “Mom, it smells like Christmas in my apartment.” 

Then, there was a recent occasion when Jerry and I took another short trip to south side Indianapolis. We were sitting around the kitchen table at my Aunt Peg’s with my cousin Marilyn having a great conversation. Peg was telling us about slicing cucumbers to make homemade pickles. We started picking her brain about the recipes she used for her canning this summer and her favorites for potato salad, etc.  She grabbed her recipe card box and began relating to a few that were passed along by family and friends.  By the time Marilyn mentioned an idea she had to put together a collection for her daughters and grandchildren, the ideas were running through my head for our next project.  I would scan Peg’s trusted old recipes and add others from the family so that we could all savor them.

I had the opportunity to setup my scanner and computer on that kitchen table last week.  What fun! Aunt Peg added tidbits of memories and people surrounding the recipes as we sorted and scanned.   I gathered the tested lists of ingredients and her personal experiences with them.  Her comments were the icing on the cake.

The plan is to see how many more “historical” recipes we can gather, saving some memories too.  Of course, this isn’t a new idea.  Many of us have those cookbooks from fund raisers and they have very good contents. But, there isn’t one from my family, yet……

Right now, however, I wanted to share a couple of those recipe recollections that came fromHush puppies Aunt Peg’s memory bank. The first recipe I’ll post is the best kind ever -- in her own handwriting on a small piece of paper with a story of how and why it’s special.  Peg says she really doesn’t like hushpuppies.  But, her brother-in-law, Richard Stull’s hushpuppies were always the exception for her.   “He was a great fisherman. Whenever he and his friend had a good day fishing he would fry up his hushpuppies with the fresh fish. I loved his because they had lots of onions.”  This is one that has a time-tested, irreplaceable ingredient as well.  Read the last line on the recipe to the right to see what I mean.

I could go on and on with potato pancakes, hot peppers, spaghetti and St. Jude Biscuitsmeatballs, German potato salad, bread and butter pickles, dumplings, etc., etc.  But for now, I’ve chosen to include the St. Jude Biscuit Recipe.  The story behind this one is that Aunt Peg used to work at the cafeteria at St. Jude’s, her parish school that’s about two blocks away from her home.  She liked those biscuits so much that she has used the recipe in her own family cooking for years.  But, notice the size when this one is assembled in its full portion. On the back of the card it says: 1 gallon, 1 1/4 qts.   Can you see the ladies in the school cafeteria sifting the 16 cups of flour and dry ingredients five times and cutting in the shortening to make 100 biscuits.  Then they would cut them out individually. We don’t know how many times they duplicated these ingredients for one lunch either. Wow, the love that went into cooking for those grade-schoolers!

Hope I’ve made you think of a few family stories that go with something you ate for years. I would love to hear your best recipe and its story.  In fact, we are on the hunt for a “Yeast Coffee Cake” recipe that was in the family many years ago that is lost now. This was melt-in-your-mouth scrumptious.  Anyone know one??? 

Well, my mouth is watering.  It’s time to see what special recipe Jerry’s cooking for dinner.

Thanks for stopping by at Hurley Travels.  Talk to you later.

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Sunday, September 11, 2011

Reflection: Good or Bad?

I was about to write a summary of Hurley Happenings for the past two weeks.  After only a few quick moments of reflection I came up with a dozen topics.  That many, and probably even more, events or interactions or good moments or unpleasant ones filled our lives in just fourteen days. It’s amazing how looking back brings up various kinds of feelings and thoughts. Now I’m writing about that instead of our events themselves.

So, you say, “For Pete’s sake, where are you going with this Nancy?”  Well, wait just a second.  I do have a point here.  Lately, there’s been quite a bit of reflection going on with me and around me.    For instance, our recent adjustment to a home base other than on wheels resulted in revisiting travels of the last eight years. Sharing old memories and writing family history for two family reunions stirred all kinds of thoughts in my mind over the past three months.  And now, as a nation we are at a point of deep reflection as we look again at that horrendous day ten years ago on 9-11. Jerry and I remember our experience in Ireland on that day….. unbelievable, shocking, lonely…. while at the same time a tremendously-moving outpouring of sympathy. 

Some say we shouldn’t dwell on the past or relive old times. Is it good or bad that we reflect back?  Should we as a country be spending so much time thinking about the tragedy of 9-11?  What about when we gather with family or friends and tell old stories; are we wasting our time?  Should we avoid bringing back  the emotions connected with the past? Many think recalling these times serves no purpose.  

I guess my opinion is that a limited dose of reflection and reminiscing is good for the soul.  Even though there may be a few tears shed.  Aren’t there usually some bright moments that come to mind?  Occasionally we gain some wisdom from the hard knocks.  Discussion with friends can help resolve feelings. Thinking about the bigger picture of experiences Jerry and I have yearly, or over ten years, makes me realize our good fortune.  Yeah, not all of our ‘happenings’ are the best. We sure wouldn’t choose to repeat them all in the future.  Some are very sad.  But many of those scenes that reflect back are generously-colored ones. 

The key to the good or bad of our reflections may be in sharing and limiting it.  The victims of 9-11 were robbed of the years of opportunities to reminisce.  Maybe the best we can do is to give thoughts to them momentarily and respectfully.  And then, have a safe and happy day of new experiences for next year’s reflection. 

God bless all those who died on Sept. 11, 2001 and their families. 

Have a safe and happy day.  Thanks for stopping by at HurleyTravels.  Talk to you later.